Frequently Asked Questions

How Long Does It Take?

Every couple is different, and while it can take as little as two hours, the average mediation takes 6-12 hours. Sessions are usually scheduled a week or two apart.

How Much Does It Cost

Mediation costs significantly less than a litigated uncontested divorce. You pay one mediator, not two attorneys. There are no up-front retainer fees. Services are charged on an hourly basis, and are paid at the end of the session.

Why Should We Use A Mediator?

A mediator is an impartial and innovative problem-solver who works for both of you. The mediator's goal is to help you come to a fair and mutually-acceptable agreement that enables both you, and your children, to move on with your lives without the necessity of a long, expensive, and bitter lawsuit. On the other hand, traditional attorneys are paid to get the best deal for their client at the expense of the other spouse. Eventually, a satisfactory settlement is forged by the opposing attorneys, but often after considerable time, expense and anxiety. In mediation, the settlement process begins immediately. Also, part of the mediator's role is to make sure that neither party dominates, nor takes advantage of the other.

We Barely Talk To Each Other; How Can We Possibly Mediate?

All that is needed is a willingness to try to reach a fair agreement. The mediator is a professional trained at promoting productive communications and defusing tension. Even couples who barely speak to each other, often have little difficulty expressing their needs and concerns in the presence of a neutral mediator.

Will I Need An Attorney?

When all the issues are resolved, a written agreement is prepared by an attorney and given to each spouse. Before signing it, many people choose to have the agreement reviewed by their attorney. Once signed, the agreement become a legally enforceable document. Because the mediator is a neutral professional, some people chose to consult with their own attorney during the mediation process.