How Does Mediation Work?

Under the guidance and assistance of a mediator, you and your spouse will identify and discuss all of the issues that need to be addressed in your Separation or Divorce Agreement, including:

• Spousal support
• Child support
• Distribution of assets and debts
• Parenting arrangements
• Tax implications

In order for you to be able to make informed decisions, the mediator ensures that there is full disclosure of all necessary financial information. If necessary, the mediator may suggest consultations with other professionals such as appraisers, accountants, financial planners, and mental health providers.

After the issues are identified and discussed, the mediator will assist you in exploring and developing creative and fair solutions that meet both your needs, as well as the needs of your children. Mediation is a completely voluntary process and you are never pressured to settle. The mediation concludes when you are both completely satisfied with your agreement.

When all of the issues are resolved, a written agreement is prepared by an attorney. Before signing it, many people often choose to have the agreement reviewed by their attorney for a second opinion. Once signed, the agreement becomes a legally enforceable document which can be incorporated into a divorce judgment.